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05-07-2008, 2:56 PM Evang. Aleechea Pitts Joined on 08-24-2006 Vineland, New Jersey, United States Posts 34 BEING SINGLE We as women in Christ shouldn't be looking for a man, first of all! The Bible states that he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord. Many women don't wait for the man to get rooted and grounded in Christ before they start getting involved in a relationship with them. I don't want a man that is not committed to God. If he is not faithful to God then he will not be faithful unto me. The man is to love the wife like Christ loved the church. Christ gave his life for the church. I don't believe in trying to make something happen. I want to be in the perfect divine will of God and not my own permissive will. I believe that whoever God puts in my life will not be a distraction to what God has called me to. When God blesses us to have a help mate, both parties will complement each other. Whatever area I'm weak in my mate will be strong in and whatever my mate is weak in I will be strong in. So many times people get distracted when invovled in relationships. Many women can't live without a man because they are trying to fill a void that cannot be filled by a human being but can only be fulfilled by Jesus Christ himself. Without putting God first in any relationship, the relationship will not last. How can two walk together except they agree. Light has nothing in common with darkness! The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. Most women are like the woman at the well. Jesus said unto her she has had five husbands and the one she had currently wasn't her eithers. Most people are getting married just to have sex becuase the Bible states that it is better to marry then to burn. I don't just want to marry someone because I cannot control my flesh. It's more to a relationship than that. Truth be told, those who have gotten to know a person by bedside manners the relationship didn't last too long because they didn't get to know the individual as a person. That's why it's so much divorces going on in the church because many have started out on the wrong foot. God hates divorce! He told us in his word that it is not good for man to be alone. But one thing God did for Adam was that God did the choosing. He chose Eve to be by Adam's side. We half the time don't know what we want. If any man lacks wisdom let him ask God who will give it to him liberally. A double minded man is unstable in all of his ways and he cannot expect to receive anything from the Lord. We are such emotional creatures and we need to ask God to anoint us in our emotions. He told us if we acknowledge him in all of our ways that he would direct our paths. There is a world cliche' that states, "Good things come to those who wait." Well... I say wait. Most of us don't need to be in a relationship with anyone until we fall in love with Jesus. Jesus said, "If you love me that you will keep my commandments." In other words, you will abide by the Bible and its entirety. We need to get our love life straightened out! What's love got to do with it? Love is the bottom line.... Read 1st Corinthians the 13 chapter to find out what love really is. You shall know them by their fruit, Evangelist Aleechea Pitts, Founder Paulean Ministries PO Box 413 Vineland, NJ 08362 Web page: http://www.pauleanministries.weebly.com P. S."Endeavoring for the kingdom!"    Report

09-07-2008, 1:35 AM lojnowandforever@hotmail.com Joined on 08-04-2008 Okmulgee, Oklahoma, United States Posts 4 Re: BEING SINGLE Yes indeed evangelist we all need helpmates and waiting until your due season is good.... but I would direct you to I Corinthians 7 v 12-15 in that for those that may already be in relationships or marriage....If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases; but God hath called us to peace.....praise the lord and may God bless you with prosperity, understanding, and peace...in jesus name......amen    Report

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