Broken Relationship - Moving Foward

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  1. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Most loving Lord! You know my broken heart! I am shattered and I just do not know how to come out of this disappointment. The timing is when I really needed the support, love and understanding. Tears flow down my cheeks and I sink in my sorrow O Lord! The scripture says that all things work together only for good. Right now I do not understand Your ways but strengthen me to accept Your will. I turn to You for help for I know without You I can never come out of this depression. Comfort me Lord and sustain me with Your sweet presence. I commit my future in Your hands. Help me forget my past and let me start a new life with You as my guide. Make me glad and grant me a glorious future. Lift me up Lord from this depressed state and wipe away my tears with Your loving hands. I cast all my burdens and disappointments at Your feet Lord! Keep me in perfect peace till I receive the partner of Your choice from Your hands. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

     

  2. waltda_3rd
    Sr. Member
    122   Posts

    My Dear sister in Christ, I know somewhat and share with you; depression can and will cause absolute misery. But I can tell/say thay no matter how far down you get, God is still able to reach you and pull/bring you out. Your stormy seas will be calm, you will see the goodness and Glory of the Almighty God for he is able to do exceedingly and abundantly more than we could ever ask. I encourage you to feel
    good about yourself because you are precious in God sight.
    My prayer is for you and your recovery/break-through. I want you research back to Feb 2011 for my postings and I promise you that God is ABLE….....
    waltda3d or waltd_3rd

     

  3. needing prayer
    Newbie
    9   Posts

    Dear Sister in Christ. I truly understand the hurt you are going through as I am going through it also almost the same way. And I know much you’re hurting now. But trust that the Lord here your cry’s and there will peace in the morning.  I pray that you find a job soon and comfort in your life. You are not alone there are people that love and care for you right here. So reach out to us when you get to lonesome there is always somewhere to uplift you. Always praying for you.

     

  4. needing prayer
    Newbie
    9   Posts

    Dear Sister, I just read today word by Joel Osteen and I wanted to some of it with you.

    One principle that the resurrection teaches us is that God will always finish what He started. No matter how dark it looks, no matter how long it’s been, no matter how many people are trying to push you down; if you will stay in faith, God will always take you from Friday to Sunday. He will always complete what He started in you!

    Have a blessed day!!! Sunday Coming!!!

     

  5. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Dear God, help me to realize that people will be people, and that fallen people, even those I trust, will sometimes hurt me. Give me the grace to remember that it is a fallen world, and that hanging on to my anger and bitterness and resentment will only destroy me, and bring a barrier between me and You. Grant me the grace right now to let go of my hurt, and understand that You know what I am feeling, because You were betrayed. I claim the words of Jesus, that wisdom will be vindicated by its children, and that You, Lord, will have the final balance of justice. I entrust this situation to you. I thank You that I am in good hands. You are the God of truth. Keep me pressing forward. In Jesus Name, Amen.

     

  6. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Thank You, Lord, for the cleansing, healing power of tears. I long to sit in Your presence and let the tears flow. Help me release my fears, anger, pain and give my hurts to You. In Jesus name. Amen.

     

  7. smcghee1
    Newbie
    12   Posts

    God is good! Just remember one thing….YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I have been there in that same state and condition with those same feelings you are feeling now…stand in faith, walk in victory and just HOLD ON! trust me..it dont last forever but will consume you if you allow the enemy to trick you…I know how hard it is to stop crying….sometimes I would just break down…driving, at work, in the middle of the night, upon waking, etc. ANYWHERE AT ANY TIME….I was stressed out bad…I had to soon realize that if I didnt make a decision to worship God in season and out despite my situation that the enemy was going to take me under…go to church! Immerse yourself in the word daily….and this may sound strange but I take my word to bed with me every night….and finally pray and pray with the belief that God is going to change your situation and do it in strength…surround yourself with positive Godly people….speak Gods word back to Him! The bible says His word will not return to Him void….speak Life over yourself, encourage yourself in the Lord! He will give you peace and rest.. cast all your cares upon Him for He cares for you and so do I…sincerly GOD BLESS…YOU ARE GOING TO BE JUST FINE!!!! BELIEVE IT!

     

  8. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Dear God, I have loved well but not too wisely. I’ve given my heart to someone who has not honored that gift and I realize this relationship does not serve either of us. Please give me the courage and strength to end this relationship gracefully. Help me to forgive, heal and move on with my life so that I may open the door to new happiness. Amen.

     

  9. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    My Lord and My God,
    I have put my trust in other people, places and things thinking that they could rescue me or give me pleasure. They have always failed me in the end. Only You are God
    almighty. I worship You and You only. Amen.

     

  10. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Remember, God wishes above all things that you prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers (3 John 2).

    Father God, I come to You in the Name of Jesus to make a personal commitment to walk in the God-kind of love. I’ve made the decision to love and forgive everyone who has spoken or come against me or my loved ones. I refuse to hold any aught, ill feelings, unforgiveness, strife or discord in my life.1 I want my heart always to be pure and perfect before You.2 According to Your written Word, love never fails; perfect love casts out fear; faith works by love, and the greatest of these is love.3 The love of God is shed abroad in my heart by the Holy Ghost.4 Love is the first fruit of the spirit that is to grow and develop in my life, and above all, Jesus gave me a new commandment that I love everyone.5 God, I ask You to forgive former unkind manager, my long-time friend, CLS, and certain family members and friends for whatever they may have said or done to come against me. Lay not this sin to their charge.6 Forgive them, for they know not what they’ve done.7 Lord, I remind You that You’ve forgiven me of all my sins, wrongdoings, faults and shortcomings. 8 Jesus forgave all those who persecuted and crucified Him, as well as those who personally attacked Him. Stephen forgave those who railed against him and stoned him. If Jesus could forgive when they were crucifying Him and Stephen could forgive when they were stoning him, I know and believe that I can forgive anyone who has come against me and my loved ones. This is because I can do all things through Christ, Who gives me the strength. 9 Jesus said I can have what I say.10 Therefore, based on the written Word of God, 11 my confession of faith is the following:
    In the Name of Jesus, I’m not moved by what I see, by what others do to me or say about me, nor by how they treat me. I refuse to be a carnal Christian. 12 I choose to be spiritually mature in the Lord. If no one else in the body of Christ walks in the God-kind of love that is none of my business! I am walking in the God-kind of love. I don’t hold a grudge or resentment against anyone, and I refuse to allow my flesh and carnal nature to dominate me. I refuse to be ruled by my emotions or feelings. I walk in the Spirit. 13 I walk by faith and not by sight, and I always walk in the God-kind of love.14 Because I do, I reap the benefits of long life, good health and divine protection. 15 Everything always works out for my good, and whatever I do prospers. I don’t sit in the seat of the scornful, but on the contrary, I’m ruling and reigning in this life with Christ Jesus.
    16 Satan has no place in my life because I have no guile in me. I love everyone the same with the God-kind of love. I never return railing for railing, and I’m always quick to forgive and slow to speak. 17 I’m not easily provoked, and I think evil of no one because my trust is in the Lord and not in man. 18 Since I operate my Christian life in the God-kind of love and have forgiven everyone of everything, I’m always blessed with the blessings of the Lord. I refrain my tongue from evil, and my lips speak no guile. 19 Therefore, my faith is not hindered and I know God has heard and answered my prayers. As it is written,

    “For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things. Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God. And whatsoever we ask, we receive of him, because we keep his commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in his sight.” 1 John 3:20 – 22 Thank You, Father God, for always helping me to forgive others and walk in love, in Jesus’ Name. Amen.

     

  11. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    This is definitely not a very comfortable place to inhabit. You may not feel like reading your Bible and you may not even feel like praying.  But when you look to Jesus to heal your brokenness, it’s the safest place to dwell during a very difficult season of your life. The Word reminds us in Psalm 34:18 (The Message), “If your heart is broken, you’ll find God right there; if you’re kicked in the gut, he’ll help you catch your breath.” If all you can do is cry out to the Lord for help, then do it!

     

  12. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Dear Lord, You are my hope every day. Thank You for loving me and guiding me. Help me to see You in my circumstances — all of them. You are that glimmer of hope that keeps me hanging on. Thank You. In Jesus’Name, Amen.

     

  13. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    Lord, I give you my anger, my fear, my resentment. Forgive me, heal me, and in Your strength, Lord, forgive those who caused me pain. In Jesus Name. Amen.

     

  14. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    I am lonely, even though my life is filled with noise, clutter and activity. My heart aches for the intimacy of a faithful companion, a friend who knows the real me and loves me anyway. A person who is not bound to me by love alone but who genuinely enjoys my company, someone who likes me and wants to spend time with me. Is there such a person?

    Sometimes it seems like my friends – even those I’ve known for many years – are really just acquaintances. Our level of commitment to each other is strong, but the closeness is like a large, shallow lake. It covers the landscape but is only a few inches deep. We share the joys and sorrows of our day-to-day activities; but, we do not truly know each other enough to share our deepest needs, desires, hurts or goals. Fear keeps us from revealing our weaknesses to each other.

    Gracious giver of all that I need for life, help me learn to be the kind of friend I crave. Surely there are others who desire the same thing. Remind me that my own unrealistic expectations may damage the relationships I cherish. Calm my fears and guide me as I learn to be more open and honest about my needs and pain. Protect me from those who would exploit my honesty for their own gain.

    Teach me to be a good listener and a faithful keeper of secrets. As I try to deepen a friendship, help me find time for nurturing the relationship, for meeting another’s needs, for sharing the burdens of my friend’s life. Let us open our hearts in prayer together so that you become the foundation of our friendship and our faith is at the core of it.

    Thank you for the example you have set by being the kind of friend I want to be. Allow me to keep my eyes focused on you rather than measuring myself against others.

    I ask this in the name of the one who was such a good friend he gave his life for me.
    Amen.

     

  15. ship
    Sr. Member
    HICKORY, N.C. 28601
    6979   Posts

    TO C.J. WHITE,  A PRAYER FOR THE LOST….DEAR FATHER GOD, WE ASK YOU TO PRAY FOR ALL WHO HAVE LOST: OUR HEALTH; PEACE OF MIND; OUR HOUSING; OUR FINANCIAL SECURITY, A LOVED ONE;  OUR DREAMS; OUR TALENTS OUR INITIAL ZEAL; OUR SOBRIETY; OUR FAITH; OUR SELF RESPECT; OUR PERSPECTIVE; OUR HAPPINESS; OUR INDEPENDANCE; PEACE WITHING OUR FAMILIES, CIVIL PEACE, OUR TRUST IN OTHERS, OUR VIRTUE, OUR HOME.  DEAR JESUS,  AS THE INTERCESSOR OF THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED OF YOUR MERCY. LISTEN TO HIS VOICE AS HE CALLS OUT TO YOU ON OUR BEHALF, AND GRANT THOSE THINGS THAT WILL HELP US GROW IN YOUR LOVE. WE AS THE THROUGH JESUS CHRIST.

     

  16. CJWhite
    Sr. Member
    Portsmouth, Virginia
    2097   Posts

    To My Sister of Christ, Ship:
    The One who died for us… is in the presence of God at this very moment sticking up for us. Romans 8:34

    Jesus is praying for us… Jesus has spoken and Satan has listened. The devil may land a punch or two. He may even win a few rounds, but he never wins the fight. Why? Because Jesus takes up for you…. “He is able always to save those who come to God through him because he always lives, asking God to help them” (Heb. 7:25)....

    Jesus, at this very moment, is protecting you…. Evil must pass through Christ before it can touch you. And God will “never let you be pushed past your limit; he’ll always be there to help you come through it” (1 Cor. 10:13 MSG).

     

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