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  1. jlwoodford
    Newbie
    2   Posts

    My husband is filing for a divorce. He packed his bags and moved in with his mother day after Christmas. I’m committed to my marriage and love my husband, heart and soul. We’ve been together for over 10 yrs and have an 8 yr old daughter. He is having an affair with a co-worker (who left her husband recently as well). He has surrounded himself with people who enable him to make poor life choices (including his own mother). He has rejected Godly counsel and rejects the Godly men in his life. He’s told me he doesn’t feel connected to me anymore; that there is no fire. He claims he gave me three months to try but that is not true. For the past three months he didn’t try at all, didn’t truly look at me or my actions and never allowed us to even try anything romantic, he was too busy hanging out with his friends or with his new girlfriend.
    We have seen a licensed Christian marriage counselor for 6 visits (he won’t go anymore). Right now things are so very difficult. He packed his bags and walked out right after Christmas. He doesn’t want to be with me anymore as husband and wife (he is okay with friends). He feels we are no longer married (in his mind b/c he feels the paper doesn’t count) so what he does is none of my business.

    I pray numerous times a day that God will open his eyes and heart to the possibility of reconciliation and restoration (or I should say re-creation) of our marriage. I pray for the souls of his friend(s) that have gone astray and are helping my husband to make poor and self-centered choices. I pray that those friends find their own path to God (hopefully not the same path my family is on) and find their way home. I am speaking with my pastor often and my daughter and I are attending church and bible study regularly.
    I do realize our marriage problems aren’t entirely my husband’s fault. I placed my husband up on this tall, white pedestal that no one could remain on for very long. That pedestal should have been reserved for God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit, not my husband. Now he has fallen off, is hurt and wants to run away to something that is easier for him (at the moment at least, he doesn’t realize the long-term ramifications of his choices and how they aren’t better for anyone in our family). I had placed too much pressure on him to be perfect or to live up to what I thought he should be and that was wrong of me. He did the same to me as well and I didn’t live up to his unreasonable expectations either and I fell off my pedestal. We both broke our marriage.  However right now he can only blame me for our marriage failure and for making him want to run away. He told me he feels he is the victim. I am willing to do whatever it takes to rebuild our marriage and work for what God wants ad what is good for our daughter and what I want but he doesn’t want to work at it, he just wants out.
    I know my sins of miss-communication, not being open about my needs, not being open enough for him to feel he could talk with me about his needs. I didn’t respect my husband properly, verbally or through my actions. I nagged and was very negative, enough so that it hurt him which is what sent him to look for someone else who could maybe give him what he wants (although that is not what he is getting now from his friend(s), not really, he hasn’t realized that just yet). Also we never truly sat down and talked with each other about our relationship, how he and I felt and never sought to get help early on in our marriage. I was blind due to my own selfish needs as he was as well. I didn’t know there was a problem till he said it was too late for our marriage. I don’t feel or believe it is too late for us. I pray it isn’t too late!

    I feel God has pressed upon me to bring him back to God, only in the right way this time, and in turn my husband will eventually find his way back to me and our daughter. I have been reading the bible, love and respect books, working the Love Dare and I am actively practicing what I have come to learn; to give him the unconditional respect and love he needs from me (even when he doesn’t act appropriately, it is his right not something he has to earn). I have apologized directly to him for all of my misgivings and sins against him. I have asked for forgiveness from him and he says he has forgiven me but he hasn’t otherwise he would be able to rebuild and try if he had. I’m trusting that God will see I’m trying to be the wife he wants me to be. I am trying to honor my covenant with God and my husband. I am trying to walk along side Christ and be more Christ like and raise my daughter that way. I pray that God will help open my husband’s eyes and ears, speak to him directly and show him the way back home to God and his family. Please pray: for our marriage to be restored and recreated in the way God wants for it to be; for my husband to hear and feel God’s love in his thoughts and dreams; to bring peace to his soul and to help heal his heart; and to rebuild a strong Christian-based foundation for our marriage rooted in God, love and respect.

     

  2. Ambassadress
    Sr. Member
    SWEDEN
    2295   Posts

    Shalom, God bless you and Happy New Year jlwoodford!

    Thank you Heavenly Father for this woman & husband, the Lord’s Grace.
    Lord send your guardian angels around the whole family.
    Fill with Your joy & love song together they returned to blossom into its fullness.

    Thank you Heavenly Father, we come as we are and see us through Jesus Christ the Lord, forgive our sins and purify us through Jesus Christ, the Lord’s Blood. Let this be a testimony of Your Glory and self-love, Let them be a witness of Jesus in their lives, for most integers You God gives the gift of faith and love spring in Eternal Grace, Glory.

    Let her husband, to see with your eyes God.
    Allow the family to come to a Church where spiritual home is for each family member were the whole family enjoys and finds affinities.
    Give the woman wisdom, as befits all the Saints.

    For you God is, nothing is impossible with God was more love for her husband and Angels to his daughter, female wisdom to the woman to be herself, close to God who created her to a beauty and Glory be, bringing up a child.
    Let your light shine brighter in their heart and reveal yourself to them.

    The Holy Spirit restore, re the marriage vows and God’s faith. Lead them, the way that you have for them.
    Thank God that you do not put a woman of God Prayer in shame and that fruits God should get to know Jesus in their Lives, Miracles and Healings of Jesus Christ, the Lord’s name, thank God that it is already done in the spirit world, Amen
    Ambassadress of Jesus, Birgit in Sweden

     

  3. Ambassadress
    Sr. Member
    SWEDEN
    2295   Posts

    Shalom,
    So teach us to number our days,
    That we may gain a heart of wisdom.
    Relent, Yahweh! How long?
    Have compassion on your servants!
    Satisfy us in the morning with your loving kindness,
    That we may rejoice and be glad all our days.
    Ps 90:12-14 GOD BLESS YOU!
    Ambassadress of Jesus, Birgit in Sweden

     

  4. Tamika35
    Newbie
    2   Posts

    Dear woman of God,
    I pray for a restoring in your marriage and your home wih your husband. Sister you have to walk by faith and not by sight in your current problem. I know what you are going through becasue I myself is going through the same thing. You must contiune to pray for your husband non stop. Satan is in the business to destory marriages. We must lift up our praises and prayers up to heaven non stop. I believe dear woman of God that he has a great blessing for you and your daughter. Just keep the faith and never give up hope. God bless Amos 3:3. God bless u

     

  5. ms.synnamon69
    Newbie
    20   Posts

    Woman of God HOLD ON!!! I pray right now in the name of Jesus that this marriage is restored I rebuke the hands of the devil right now off this marriage the hearts and the minds of this couple. I pray in the name of Jesus that the heart of her husband is massaged with the word of God. open his ears and speak to him of God let him once again desire his wife and be the man that you would declare him to be. We come against the spirit that’s trying to break family’s down IJN. We come against every spirit that is in agreement with this we pray that every friend is saved and renewed by your Holy word o God. We declare this to go forth right now in the name of Jesus Amen.

     

  6. STAND2012
    Newbie
    2   Posts

    Gods word says that when 2 or 3 gather, touch and agree.. it is done, I touch and agree that your family and marriage will be restored in Jesus name.  I see the devil is very busy in a lot of our lives and marriages, however, It gives me strenght to move ahead not becuse I see others strugglig like me but because people have stopped to focusing on their own problems and to encourgae and Pray for others.  its been said that God doesnt want us to focus on our problems but the foucus on him and what we has do to help and or encourge some one else.  Be encouraged !  We must be stead fast and unmoveable.  This is the year of return!  Expect and believe.  I will continue to pray in the spirit that there will be change in our marriages and our lives.

     

  7. cheney
    Newbie
    3   Posts

    My name is cheney from uk. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in February this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.EGOGO he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3years. I really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 7 days when i returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is egogotemple@yahoo.com

     

  8. Kemada
    Newbie
    21   Posts

    You did the correct thing by apologizing and asking your husband for forgiveness. Now you just have to be patient for him to return. Begin seeking God on how to be the wife that is sought after, respected and admired. I pray that your husband soon returns. It is just a matter of time that your husband realize the grass is not greener on the other side.